Sunday, December 10, 2017

Hefei

We crashed early, but couldn’t sleep for longer than a couple hours at a time.  Up and down, finally morning came – time for breakfast.  Breakfast was so fun!  It was truly a blend of east and west.  Congee to waffles.

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The hotel had a pavilion were they were selling very expensive carvings – had to look.  Love the teeny details!  Being here has brought back so many memories from Singapore.  The hotel lobby smell was familiar.  So many little things trigger little memories – it’s fun!

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We walked down to the Little Family Mart and bought some water for the day, and then headed to the train station with Ashley and our driver, Mr. Wang.  I’m so grateful that was all set up.  No worries at all.  We gave Mr. Wang his tip and he headed out.  Ashley was so kind and stayed with us until we boarded the train. 

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We loved the train!  We had nice big seats and watched the countryside.  The train travels at 200 mph, but it is so smooth.  Highly recommended!  We bought a lunch on the train. It’s really mind boggling how many people live here!  There are huge apartment buildings like these everywhere!

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Hefei!!!  So exciting!  We meet our new guide, Ding, and our new driver.  Ding wasted no time telling us all of our next steps – tomorrow we meet Kai at the Civil Affairs office!  Tomorrow!!  We got to our hotel and got checked in and then headed off to exchange our USD for RMB.  We’ll need it in the next couple of days.  After our money exchange, we headed back to our hotel room for a nap.  The fact that I can’t sleep more than three hours at a time was catching up with me – hard!

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At 6PM, we ventured back out.  Our hotel is right by the famous walking street – basically a street that comes alive with stalls and wares to be sold.  There are permanent commercial stores and then there are “stalls” for lack of a better word.  We were the ONLY white people we saw the entire evening – it was so fun!  I loved watched the little families with their babies and little kids, there were tons of couples everywhere.  It was just fun to get out and see things and explore.

Some of the sites:  Just had to get a picture of KFC, since it’s headquartered in Louisville :)  This menu was a bit different than the one down the street from my house :)

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So cool!

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I thought these filled balloons with lights were so cute!

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Had to check out McDonald’s for Joy – a different menu BTW :)

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You can find so many different things here – these are all treats from Russia!

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Another Hot Pot – I love searing hot pot, it says.  Shopkeepers had speakers advertising their products – another layer of noise :)

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Jason saw three different apple stores.  We thought that was funny. 

And this sign – bad photo – no fire crackers :)

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Food on sticks everywhere!

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Need some bling?

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loved these!

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We also bought some mango – so good!!  I LOVED watching the children :)

(heading back to our hotel) – (cars and scooters park everywhere, our hotel, beautiful bridge)

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We stopped for dinner at Noodle and Chopsticks – so yummy!

Braised Beef Noodle Soup and Coke (a Chinese Christmas Coke )

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Tomorrow is the big day!!!

Saturday, December 09, 2017

Day One (ish)

3:15 Am comes so early!  Up and dressed.  Goodbyes said to our sweet bigs, who now have added stress and responsibility, silent caresses for the littles (I love you so much, please don’t wake up!), and we were off!  Gary dropped us off at the airport.  We made it through check in (breathing a bit easier), then TSA (another stress level peals back), and finally to the terminal and sit and wait.  Uncertainty, stress, and a feeling of being totally out of control means Jason had us to the airport very early  - but better safe than sorry!

(pic of Jason and I at SDF, waiting to board – “We are going to China!”)

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Our flight was a totally normal domestic flight.  We made it to Dallas and had about 2 hours to kill.  We arrived in B terminal, but it just a quick walk over to D terminal.  D terminal in Dallas is like a mall!  They have clothing stores, a million different places to eat, traveler’s stores, even a 7-11!  Has it been so long since I traveled internationally?  What happened to the boring terminals?  We got ourselves Einstein Bagels – super yummy.  (It reminded me of when Becca was our only child.  Jason and I both worked, so Saturday was “Becca day.”  We would start the day with a bagel at Einstein’s Bagels.  They are just as tasty as memory serves!)

Then we sat and waited for our flight to Shanghai.  With few exception, everyone around us looked Chinese – “we are going to China!! is definitely hitting!”  I passed the time watching a three year old play with his Mama.  He was adorable and super energetic.  I used Google Translate to ask his age (wondering how important this tool is going to become to me over the next two weeks.)

(pic of Jason and I at DFW, waiting to board – “We are REALLY going to China!”

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We were so excited to board, so excited to finally be doing this – all worries about visas and passports and someone finding some reason we can’t go, are through.  We sat next to a delightful 29 year old Chinese student.  She is currently working on her Master’s at Baylor, and she spoke beautiful English!  :)  She was kind enough to go through my list of phrases and help me practice.  My Mandarin skills….they leave a lot to be desired.

The flight – We were encouraged by the head room and the seats seemed a bit bigger than our domestic flight for this 15 hour flight.  Reality – we are packed into straight chairs for 15 hours!!!  LONGEST FLIGHT EVER!  I NEVER want to be on an airplane that long again – until the 22nd to take me HOME!  Goodness – while domestic flights are pretzels and a beverage, international flights are food, food, and more food.  Pretzels, a meal, snacks, a packaged snack, and another meal.  And if you wanted more snacks, they were there for the taking. 

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The inflight entertainment screens built into the seatbacks were great, but mine didn’t work.  They gave me a tablet, but that wasn’t working either.  So we just watched movie after movie on Jason’s screen, sharing a pair of headphones (The family that shares ear buds stays together??).  I read and read. We watched movies.  We tracked our flight (seriously cool feature!!) We ate.  Surely this is almost over, but alas, only 4 hours had passed.  10 plus to go.  Oh my goodness, oh my goodness, oh my goodness!  We tried to sleep.  We took sleeping aids – that works for brief stretches – Jason doesn’t have his mask, and I have no where to lay my head  (Luke 9:58: “foxes have holes and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.”  Crazy the things that pop into your head when you are tired :)   )

The sun was always on our left – the phone has technology to darken the windows.  We flew across Canada, Russia, flew around North Korea, and then we flew through China.  7704 miles – that’s a long trip!

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Summed up – the airline was great, the people so friendly, the food,  and quantity thereof was great, but I was SO excited to get off that airplane!!

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stone carvings

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We thought this was a cool plane – Dragon Air.  There is a dragon on the tail.01b139a61fc47d1193853d1b87375936c824f6d582

Next up, Foreigners got to go through immigration – no big deal really, just a long wait. 

Seriously, though, walking through the airport and driving through the city, it looks the same as in American, except people are speaking a different language.  I marvel at the people and the “wondrous variety” of people where waiting in the immigration lines.  So many different countries, continents, and languages were represented!  I marveled that Heavenly Father knows all of us – speaks all of the languages I was hearing – knows the thoughts and needs of each individual.  So amazing!

Then we grabbed our bags (yeah we still have three – AA scans your luggage at each point in their journey, so Jason knew where our bags where at all times – a stress reliever, don’t want to be in China and not have any clothes!)

Then customs and our first taste of Chinese traffic jams.  Everyone has to funnel through customs, so it’s kinda like pouring sand into a funnel, all of the humans just mesh together and come out the other end in a nice straight line – and as I was almost to see, also like their roadways :)

We were meet by our guide, Ashley – so grateful we were meet by our guide Ashley!  Having that Mandarin speaking barrier between us and reality was wonderful!!  Ashely is great!  This is her part time job for the weekends.  She has a full time job in business and trade, and just does this on the side.  So relieving to have someone with you that speaks the language! 

She called our driver – another yeah to not have to worry about transportation – and we were off.  Shanghai is the biggest city in the world with 25 million people.  That’s a lot of people!  It’s enormous!  Everywhere we looked, buildings, buildings, buildings, and even more being built!  Huge housing buildings were clustered together.  It blows the mind to realize how many people live here.  We didn’t see the whole thing – just from the airport to our hotel downtown.  It took 45 minutes to get there, seeing building after building after building, with no end in sight.  I thought about how missionaries aren’t allowed into China, and if they were, I wondered how many missions would have a city like Shanghai have?  I looked at those enormous housing buildings, and imagined missionaries tracking there, “just one more door.” (Elder Utchdorf reference)  This city is, well find a word that means super, super big and enormous.  It’s that!

Traffic is interesting – she said it was worst because it was the weekend – which I thought would have made it better.  No, in Shanghai only cars registered to this area are allowed on the roads M-F.  On the weekends, people can drive in to visit the city or friends.  It’s to help with the traffic.

(thought Sammi would like these restaurants)

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There is a HUGE river that runs right through Shanghai.

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After we dropped off our bags at our hotel (very nice 42 stories!!!), Ashely, Jason, and I walked down the street to a local restaurant.  Our caseworker with Heartsent had told us that Shanghai’s specialty was dumplings  with soup in the middle.  So we had to try them!  Yum!!  Our guide called them fried dumplings.  We had duck, fish, spring rolls, fried dumplings, and wonton soup.  It was so yummy!!  So grateful we had Ashley with us.  The Chinese speak loudly and quickly, and I know no Mandarin.  They are in a hurry and expect you to know what you are doing.  So we let Ashley handle everything.  :)  There is also no personal space and people just move and expect you to let them (like how they drive). 

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The food was great!  The weather was good, and we enjoyed the walk on the street.  We stopped at a “family mart” on the street to pick up an item that didn’t make it into our suitcases.  There were so many little shops, selling everything from food and groceries to fancy clothing and electronics.  The shops were so little.  People were everywhere!  Ashley walked with us back to our hotel and told us about some other places we could go that were nearby, but we just wanted to sleep.  Our day started at 3 AM on Dec 8th, and ended at 8:30PM on Dec 9th.  So I’m not sure if this counts as one day or two :)


And then, of course, jet lag, so I’m writing this at midnight.  Hoping to grab a couple more hours of sleep before we are off to Hefei!

Wednesday, December 06, 2017

I am a Child of God

Doing hair this morning, Bella and I  were singing a song familiar to all LDS families, "I am a Child of God."
As I was singing, I was hit by the meaning - especially in how it relates to sweet Kai. The first stanza as it relates to adoption and the chorus to his blindness.  Oh…


We will meet him on Monday, and he will be our son on Tuesday. What a precious gift!

I am a child of God,
And he has sent me here,
Has given me an earthly home
With parents kind and dear.
Lead me, guide me, walk beside me,
Help me find the way.
Teach me all that I must do
To live with him someday.

Tuesday, December 05, 2017

Becca’s 22 Birthday, Lizzy’s Winter Concert

Today is Becca’s 22nd birthday!!  I was 22 when she was born.  So hard to believe.  She is doing so well – married to a man she loves, a beautiful daughter, very, very pregnant with a little boy, 9 months from finishing her RN, and dealing beautifully with a life long disease.  We are so proud of you Bec!

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Today’s Christmas bows :)

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Last night we celebrated with blue berry pie and vanilla bean ice cream!  I love how she decided when she was still very young that she preferred blueberry pie to cake.  So blueberry pie it was – and it was yummy!

Today she had a pedicure with her Grandma and lunch with Ellie and I.  Love ya Becca Lynn!

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Tonight was Lizzy’s Winter Concert.  Her Orchestra played Possibilities and A-Rowing.  They are so good!  Jason and I were so pleased!  During the first song Lizzy actually played the piano.  I thought my heart was going to burst with pride!  I clapped so hard when the Orchestra Director acknowledged her to the audience.

Afterwards we stopped at Comfy Cow for yummy, overpriced ice cream on this frigid evening!  :)

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I am one blessed Mama!

Monday, December 04, 2017

Christmas Bows, Patriarchal Blessings, and Travel Meetings!!

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Because they are so cute!!  I saw some Christmas bows on Amazon and had to get them!  There are about ten different ones – so I got two sets.  I think they look so adorable in the girls' hair!  Grateful I have little girls who still wear bows! 

Sunday Jessi received her Patriarchal Blessing.  What a choice experience!  I love to listen as hands are placed on my babies’ heads and blessings are poured out upon them.  I have been amazed and astonished at how truly individual these blessings are – how they capture the essence of each person.  How I marvel at the millions, billions, trillions, gazillions of souls Heavenly Father thinks about, and yet how individually and so particularly loved we each are!

The reality that I am leaving for two weeks to go to China and bring home my new son is starting to settle in.  We had our final travel meeting tonight with our caseworker at the agency.  It’s real, folks!  Visas are done. Crisp money has been bought.  Tickets, airline and train, hotels, drivers, guides, it’s all arranged.  We are doing this!!  (And very soon!!)

Today I bought all the little things for Kai’s backpack – little toys, snacks, his water bottle.  It’s strange to buy a whole wardrobe, gifts, everything for a child you have never meet – but feel that you love.  Sweet Kai.  I hope you are being prepared.  I hope you are being told that your new family will love you, protect you, and help you be all that you can be.  We are praying so hard for you, Kai.  For your adjustment.  We are also praying for our family.  In my scripture study I have been pondering how the Lord provides a way for us to keep the commandments, and how we have to do our part.  Combine that with what the Patriarch said to expect good things, miracles, blessings.  And I know we will all be blessed – that is not to say that we aren’t all going to end up crying at some point, but we’ll get through, Kai. 

My head is in a thousand places – so many things to get done before we leave, so many things to bring, things to remember from our training, just so much!  I am so excited and so sad!  So thrilled and so impatient!  It’s all rather unbelievable!  One week from today I meet my son!  One week from today I will touch him – and it will be undeniably real.  One week, Kai!  We are coming!! I pray for you, my son, and your transition. We chose you.

Sunday, December 03, 2017

EKU

Yesterday Jessi and I spent out in Richmond, KY at EKU.  She was checking out their school and their programs.  We both really liked their small class sizes and student focus.  Jessi found it to be bigger than she originally thought.  She would prefer a smaller school.  She doesn’t like large groups of people, but overall she was pleased.  She applied.  We’ll see which school she chooses.

I am so not ready for this!!!  I can’t imagine my life without Jes in it every day.  Sad smile

Just when life gets stable, it changes! 


Jessi is going to do amazing things.  She’s an amazing person!  We love ya Jes!

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